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  • What's the Difference, You Ask?

    Between lipstick lesbian and femme?
    Well, read and know all at Sublimefemme Unbound: No, I’m not a lipstick lesbian (I just look like one)
    Yes, I adore lipstick and never met a MAC lipglass I didn’t like, but please, don’t call me a lipstick lesbian! I’m a femme.
    What’s the difference, my pretty? Is there one? Clearly, it [...]

    Posted on Aug 27.08 to Femme   

  • a wo’mn called sir

    *I’ve read this three times and I still love it.
    by Sharon Bridgforth
    people often assume me to be a black man and in some ways i am but mostly i’m a Black butch/which to me is about gender identity/in combination with energy sensibility style and Spirit. for me to claim myself butch was a process. the [...]

    Posted on Aug 22.08 to Butch   

  • Amazing Article

    Rethinking Sexism: How Trans Women Challenge Feminism, Aug. 10th
    Seriously, it’s been a week since I’ve read it and I’m still thinking about it. READ IT!! NOW!!!
    It really explains the troubling dynamics that I’ve been witnessing in queer (femme-butch and trans) spaces as well as the feminist community and the world at large. Trans-women…there are no [...]

    Posted on Aug 17.08 to Femme, the real world   

  • Never Been Popular…

    *April 29, 2008
    Sigh, reading Stone Butch Blues so far has made me shed a lot of tears. I’m in awe of how far (and little) I am removed from that amount of violence and personal pain. Knowing that these issues still plague butches (and femmes) today makes me want to hold them tighter and love [...]

    Posted on Aug 07.08 to Butch, Femme, the personal