Comments on: Receptive Girl http://femmefluff.com/2008/10/28/untitled/ "A day in 'the life'..." Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:24:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: abg http://femmefluff.com/2008/10/28/untitled/comment-page-1/#comment-62 abg Tue, 11 Nov 2008 00:32:35 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=330#comment-62 I know "studs" that will describe their ideal girl as one that cannot be readily identified as a lesbian. I believe they are talking about you, lol... I know “studs” that will describe their ideal girl as one that cannot be readily identified as a lesbian. I believe they are talking about you, lol…

]]> By: whatilike http://femmefluff.com/2008/10/28/untitled/comment-page-1/#comment-61 whatilike Fri, 07 Nov 2008 07:14:15 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=330#comment-61 Thanks for the encouragement! Sure there are many folks who aren't butch but prefer to be the one "doing" everything! That desire, I am convinced knows no gender ID, but is more about sexual expression. So one can be stone (ie. not comfortable with touch, prefers to be the one "giving" the pleasure) if they feel they are, regardless. Thanks for the encouragement!

Sure there are many folks who aren’t butch but prefer to be the one “doing” everything! That desire, I am convinced knows no gender ID, but is more about sexual expression. So one can be stone (ie. not comfortable with touch, prefers to be the one “giving” the pleasure) if they feel they are, regardless.

]]> By: Wilhelmina http://femmefluff.com/2008/10/28/untitled/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Wilhelmina Fri, 07 Nov 2008 06:14:09 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=330#comment-60 ... Wow. Is there a counterpart to 'stone'? Because I'd love to be the one doing /all/ of that. Except that I'm not butch. Hmm. And no, I definitely don't think that wanting to be the passive one 'isn't dykey enough'. That dykes are all dominant in bed/in general is such a stereotype... one that femme-ness is out there to break, I assume. …

Wow. Is there a counterpart to ’stone’? Because I’d love to be the one doing /all/ of that.

Except that I’m not butch. Hmm.

And no, I definitely don’t think that wanting to be the passive one ‘isn’t dykey enough’. That dykes are all dominant in bed/in general is such a stereotype… one that femme-ness is out there to break, I assume.

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