Comments on: Untitled: On that Personal… http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/ "A day in 'the life'..." Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:24:27 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: LaurynX http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-671 LaurynX Tue, 23 Jun 2009 00:31:56 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-671 Aww. Thanks! I'm sure you're right about this. Aww. Thanks! I’m sure you’re right about this.

]]> By: Sublimefemme http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-667 Sublimefemme Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:26:59 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-667 Hi Lauryn, Sorry to be jumping in a little late on this one. When you meet the right person, you'll know. Until then, I agree with Glennisha--have fun. You're such a great girl; I have no doubt you'll be scooped up when you're ready. And I should know since I'm an old married lady. ;-) xo SF Hi Lauryn,

Sorry to be jumping in a little late on this one. When you meet the right person, you’ll know. Until then, I agree with Glennisha–have fun.

You’re such a great girl; I have no doubt you’ll be scooped up when you’re ready. And I should know since I’m an old married lady. ;-)

xo
SF

]]> By: LaurynX http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-659 LaurynX Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:54:55 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-659 Yea, I keep going back and forth about being w/ someone but then I just think about the drama that would come if I did get involved! Yea, I keep going back and forth about being w/ someone but then I just think about the drama that would come if I did get involved!

]]> By: LaurynX http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-658 LaurynX Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:54:38 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-658 Yea, I wouldn’t have a problem hanging out w/ someone…taking it further would make me nervous though. Yea, I wouldn’t have a problem hanging out w/ someone…taking it further would make me nervous though.

]]> By: LaurynX http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-657 LaurynX Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:54:23 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-657 Monie! Yep, I have no doubt that when I’m ready it’ll come along…the waiting gets to me though. Thanks! Monie!

Yep, I have no doubt that when I’m ready it’ll come along…the waiting gets to me though. Thanks!

]]> By: LaurynX http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-656 LaurynX Thu, 18 Jun 2009 05:54:05 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-656 Yea, stuck is where I feel right now. …and the lack of motivation is killing me. The loneliness is why I’ve decided to get out and get a new hobby lol. Yea, stuck is where I feel right now. …and the lack of motivation is killing me. The loneliness is why I’ve decided to get out and get a new hobby lol.

]]> By: Chanel http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-655 Chanel Wed, 17 Jun 2009 21:50:20 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-655 "How do you manage not being in a place for a significant other and yet wanting one?" This right here puts you lightyrs ahead of lots of people who jump into relationshps knowing damn well they aren't ready for it. Myself included. Its good you're listening to yourself. Save yourself the drama and BS you'd have to go thru if u were to throw yourself into a situation rite now. I went thru hell and back because I dot into something so deep without being ready for it. Luckily I got my ish together before i did both of us too much damage but man the the journey to get there was NO fun. It wouldve been much easier to get my stuff figured out first and get my mind right. But noo i hav to do everything the hard way. *sigh* lol girl enjoy yourself now and do wut u need to do for you. The relationship will come and then u can be truly ready to enjoy it and work it out. “How do you manage not being in a place for a significant other and yet wanting one?”
This right here puts you lightyrs ahead of lots of people who jump into relationshps knowing damn well they aren’t ready for it. Myself included. Its good you’re listening to yourself. Save yourself the drama and BS you’d have to go thru if u were to throw yourself into a situation rite now. I went thru hell and back because I dot into something so deep without being ready for it. Luckily I got my ish together before i did both of us too much damage but man the the journey to get there was NO fun. It wouldve been much easier to get my stuff figured out first and get my mind right. But noo i hav to do everything the hard way. *sigh* lol girl enjoy yourself now and do wut u need to do for you. The relationship will come and then u can be truly ready to enjoy it and work it out.

]]> By: glennishamorgan http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-654 glennishamorgan Wed, 17 Jun 2009 20:42:56 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-654 I feel you. I'm at a point right now where I don't know if I really want a girlfriend either. I'm really content w/ just enjoying spending time w/ someone and enjoying each other minus the pressure. Not to say kick it w/ someone just because but, if you do find someone that peeks your interest or who you think you may enjoy spending time w/ there is nothing wrong w/ doing just that. You can worry about a relationship or going further later. Just make sure that you are honest in what you're looking for or what and lay things out on the table. I feel you. I’m at a point right now where I don’t know if I really want a girlfriend either. I’m really content w/ just enjoying spending time w/ someone and enjoying each other minus the pressure. Not to say kick it w/ someone just because but, if you do find someone that peeks your interest or who you think you may enjoy spending time w/ there is nothing wrong w/ doing just that. You can worry about a relationship or going further later. Just make sure that you are honest in what you’re looking for or what and lay things out on the table.

]]> By: Monie http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-653 Monie Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:36:42 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-653 L, It will happen for you. I was def feeling the way you are before I started to date "Jody". In fact the reason I started to look at her as dating material in the beginning (we were just hangout buddies) was becasue I was so damned lonely. Turns out that my loneliness was the motivation I needed and had I not been feeling so alone I might have missed out on a wonderful relationship. So just hang in there. Love sometimes comes when we need it the most and least expect it. ***BIG HUG*** :-) L,

It will happen for you. I was def feeling the way you are before I started to date “Jody”. In fact the reason I started to look at her as dating material in the beginning (we were just hangout buddies) was becasue I was so damned lonely. Turns out that my loneliness was the motivation I needed and had I not been feeling so alone I might have missed out on a wonderful relationship.

So just hang in there. Love sometimes comes when we need it the most and least expect it.

***BIG HUG***
:-)

]]> By: knowledge http://femmefluff.com/2009/06/16/untitled-on-that-personal/comment-page-1/#comment-652 knowledge Wed, 17 Jun 2009 14:45:57 +0000 http://whatilike.wordpress.com/?p=1714#comment-652 "Sometimes having a negative feeling is better than having no feeling within you at all" This rings so true, not only that, it's even better when you recognize your feelings or lack thereof no matter how transformative their range. I understand how you feel about wanting to have a girlfriend at times and not wanting one at others. Seems like you're stuck in a place we all become wedged into at some point in our love or lack of love lives. It has always been an intense struggle for me to date, just date when I'm not in the place where I feel I can give all of myself to someone else. When you want something, but you're unmotivated to go after it. A conundrum that you'll know when you're ready to overcome. When I'd experience these periods in my life, I'd endure my lonliness by writing lots of lonely poetry.... it's so cliche, but it was comforting and did its best to fill the void. When you're in that place... everyting becomes possible. “Sometimes having a negative feeling is better than having no feeling within you at all”

This rings so true, not only that, it’s even better when you recognize your feelings or lack thereof no matter how transformative their range. I understand how you feel about wanting to have a girlfriend at times and not wanting one at others. Seems like you’re stuck in a place we all become wedged into at some point in our love or lack of love lives. It has always been an intense struggle for me to date, just date when I’m not in the place where I feel I can give all of myself to someone else. When you want something, but you’re unmotivated to go after it. A conundrum that you’ll know when you’re ready to overcome. When I’d experience these periods in my life, I’d endure my lonliness by writing lots of lonely poetry…. it’s so cliche, but it was comforting and did its best to fill the void. When you’re in that place… everyting becomes possible.

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