I came out to my best friend since childhood yesterday! Yay me! (Do I get points deducted if it was through texting?) Anywhoo, I told her I was bi Valentines Day of ‘08, which at the time I thought to be true. However since then I hadn’t gotten around to updating her…

She goes to a different college in a different city and I haven’t seen her in person all this year. I think the last time i saw her was last Xmas or something like that. As I get older I’m beginning to realize that you can’t just let the friendships you’ve had for years and years (we’ve known each other for almost 10 years now) just “fall off” as she said. Does it get harder to make friendships like that as you get older? Much less keep them together? The friends she had in high school (we didn’t go to the same high school either) have all but ‘evaporated’ now. I think the fact that we haven’t seen each other on the regular since junior high (tho in high school we talked on the phone almost everyday) has oddly enough kept us from losing touch completely. Absence makes the heart grow fonder? Though over the years we’ve had less and less to talk about…

So there you have it. I’ve told the only friend I really care to tell at the moment (my social circle is minuscule to begin with keep that in mind…haha).

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